Relationship Deal Breakers, Second Chances and The Case of “The Drunkard That Got Away”
What are YOUR “Deal Breakers” in relationships? You know, that black list of bad habits and unfortunate personality traits are zero tolerance in your book. Verbal abuse? Name your drug addiction? Ex porn star? Bad breath? I know I have my “I will NEVER be in a relationship with you once I get one whiff of this behavior” list. Don’t [...]
Read More →Dakini Diva’s, A New Feminine Archetype and The Case of “The Sexy Alien Angel From The Stars”
There are many connotations to the word “DAKINI.” Most people can’t pronounce it. Other’s give me the raised eyebrow when the word is uttered in public. Certain adepts get it and give me a high five. Wikipedia says a Dakini is a “Tantric deity described as a female embodiment of enlightened energy.” In modern times, it is a code word [...]
Read More →Cyber Dakini’s, New Beginnings and the Case of “The Women Who Branded the World”
Branding. It’s your unique mark in the world. An image that follows you everywhere and poses a personal challenge to rise up and meet yourself. I’ve gone by many names over the years. Maiden name, married name, post divorce I reclaim my new self name. Artist names. Hippie names. Spiritual names. And a handful of Dakini names from back in [...]
Read More →Misperceptions, Memes and The Case of “What Tantric Dakini’s Actually Do”
The Tantric Dakini. As sacred sexuality bubbles to the surface of modern erotic culture and more woman chose the path of spiritual sex work in the name of the divine, this catch phrase is beginning to make Backpage headlines and viral Facebook memes. Calling oneself a “Tantric Dakini” is a badge of honor worn by women who work as sensual [...]
Read More →“Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman
Do you know the 8 Rules for Booking a Sensual Massage? You would think most men would know how to pick up the phone and politely book a FBSM appointment as he would with his doctor or therapist. Professionally. But for some reason in the Erotic Arts world some guys take this simple phone call as an opportunity to be [...]
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