Facebook Crushes, Friend Requests and The Case of “Love At First Sight With a Profile Thumbnail”
Facebook crushes. Surely we have all done it at some point in our modern social networking lives: Develop a fanciful infatuation based on someone’s Facebook profile. Secretly stalk their page at the wee hours of the night and create marriage vows in our head based on a touched up photo or alluring status update they posted. A virtual romance sourced [...]
Read More →Cyber Dakini’s, New Beginnings and the Case of “The Women Who Branded the World”
Branding. It’s your unique mark in the world. An image that follows you everywhere and poses a personal challenge to rise up and meet yourself. I’ve gone by many names over the years. Maiden name, married name, post divorce I reclaim my new self name. Artist names. Hippie names. Spiritual names. And a handful of Dakini names from back in [...]
Read More →Misperceptions, Memes and The Case of “What Tantric Dakini’s Actually Do”
The Tantric Dakini. As sacred sexuality bubbles to the surface of modern erotic culture and more woman chose the path of spiritual sex work in the name of the divine, this catch phrase is beginning to make Backpage headlines and viral Facebook memes. Calling oneself a “Tantric Dakini” is a badge of honor worn by women who work as sensual [...]
Read More →“Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman
Do you know the 8 Rules for Booking a Sensual Massage? You would think most men would know how to pick up the phone and politely book a FBSM appointment as he would with his doctor or therapist. Professionally. But for some reason in the Erotic Arts world some guys take this simple phone call as an opportunity to be [...]
Read More →BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me”
“Get down on your knees,” he says. His eyes were commanding yet full of fire and adoration. It wasn’t a request. He was so grounded and assured of his power that I could only blush in response. Hesitating for a moment I wasn’t sure what to do. It seemed silly, a command that normally would be reprimanding, yet the way [...]
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