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Comment on Bondassage, BDSM and The Case Of “Tie Me Up & Tickle My Chakras” by Scarlet Amor

Scarlet Amor — Thu, 23 May 2013 22:52:00 +0000

The regard is mutual, darling! Keep up the good work. xox

Comment on Bondassage, BDSM and The Case Of “Tie Me Up & Tickle My Chakras” by Jaeleen

Jaeleen — Thu, 23 May 2013 22:30:00 +0000

Fabulous article, Scarlet ~ thank you so much for the shout out. I absolutely love what you’re doing and I can’t wait to read your new book!

Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by NY Sensual Massage Etiquette. Proper Behavior * | Best BodyRub & Nuru in Midtown Manhattan NY

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Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by Madeline Courtier

Madeline Courtier — Thu, 09 May 2013 02:50:00 +0000

That phone conversation.. ..Girl you had us rollin’!! I remember when that use to happen. I read this to my girlfriend who is also a sensual bodyrub receptionist. We would swear up and down some guys would just call using it as “free sex talk”. All I could think is, “Listen buddy, if you’re gonna keep this up send $3.99 a minute through paypal.” Everything you said is exactly how I feel but can’t say…. And wish i could just say!! Sometimes you wonder if its you, if your crazy or impatient. Me and My girlfriend talk all the time about that stuff and we always wonder is it just us? Maybe we have lost our patience or our expectations of the general (sensual bodyrub) public is not congruent with reality. It really comes down to the person and usually if they are that retarded the it is a red flag that they are going to be a problem when they come in because obviously they don’t know how to act and/or socially retarded to a point where dealing with them is not even worth the “bizarro” experience for the girl. Then we feel bad that we even booked the idiot that caused them to have an experience they’re unhappy about that discourages them from being their best for the next. i very much enjoyed your works, beautifully done. You’ve got two new fans!!! Thanks for the giggles, that was awesome!!

Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by Antonia Santorini

Antonia Santorini — Fri, 29 Mar 2013 21:27:00 +0000

Hi.Found your blog a few days ago and started reading it,nicely written and love the witty language:) I am an erotic masseuse living and working in Paris,and know exactly what you are talking about in this post.The only difference is I think that over here we don’t really expect a guy to provide that much info about himself( web profiles or even to verify with other providers).Me personally I don’t do incalls,but if I did,this would be too much to ask I think.I usually go by the screening over the phone or emails that I get and usually if the phrase “I can’t see your tits good in pics,are they big?” comes up,that is a lost cause.But the clients that are men enough to appreciate the touch and the full experience of the massage,are usually the ones that are left with big smiles on their faces!
Regards from Paris

Comment on Facebook Crushes, Friend Requests and The Case of “Love At First Sight With a Profile Thumbnail” by Wahkeena Sitka

Wahkeena Sitka — Sun, 01 Jul 2012 17:19:00 +0000

pretty freakin cute and funny taboot!!! i giggled. a lot.

Comment on Love Letters by Alannah Summer

Alannah Summer — Thu, 24 May 2012 23:50:00 +0000

Beatifully presented, artfully displayed and respectfully witty whilst offering such marvellous insight into our much misunderstood business! I have moved from escorting into therapeutic tantric & energetic healing; combining years of psychology and tantric training within my services. I’ve been blessed in meeting few outstanding colleauges. Finding you here is an added source of support – a great outreach for us healers and nurturers globally (& universally) Love Alannah x (and I LOVE your “how to book” overview! It resonated….oh boy, did it ever We need to keep educating our clients….

Comment on Misperceptions, Memes and The Case of “What Tantric Dakini’s Actually Do” by Viryam Robertson

Viryam Robertson — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:25:23 +0000

So brilliant, Scarlet.
I especially loved: “Finally she has found a vocation that will pay the bills and allow her to eat out at raw food restaurants on a daily basis. But no matter how proud she may be of her new line of work most people don’t understand it. She teams up with a small group of other Dakini’s for support, but when she mentions the “T” word in public she gets tarred and feathered. She is faced with misperceptions, judgements, name calling, and frustrating assumptions.”
New Zealand has fully legalized prostitution, but nobody has a CLUE what Tantra might be, aside from that. Plenty of work to do…
Bless You,
Daka Viryam.

Comment on Misperceptions, Memes and The Case of “What Tantric Dakini’s Actually Do” by Hanny Bodymindspiritawakening

Hanny Bodymindspiritawakening — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 21:52:48 +0000

Hi Scarlet,

I read this post as a true confession of a woman who is fully committed to its destination. Although I have no certification as Daka, feel exactly what’s going on.

Maybe it’s because I attend intensive Reiki treatment, and thus we draw both from the same source of energy that drives us both. We do things that many people do not understand or completely hypocritical and condemn. This photo is a mixture of it all. Perhaps 2000 years ago the human society would understands us better .

It’s hard to explain what controls us and why we do it. And therefore it is very important constantly explain this to people around us.

It is hard to understand that sex is not the goal for us, but the tool on the way to change the perception of space and achieve unity.

And I very much appreciate your efforts in this education.

Hanny, Reiki Master and Jade Dragon

Comment on Misperceptions, Memes and The Case of “What Tantric Dakini’s Actually Do” by Julian Arancia

Julian Arancia — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 23:15:08 +0000

What a great post. You really convey a sense of the collision between intention and perception with grace and humor. And most of all a sense of acceptance and overcoming it all.

Thank you for this.

Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by stevi

stevi — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 21:14:47 +0000

So perfectly timely Scarlett. Thank you – I have spent the past 2 days experiencing those men who really need to know this etiquette. 138 callers -50% acted exactly as you have described. Bless em.

Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by Mistress Montaine

Mistress Montaine — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 01:05:55 +0000

Very clever.
Loved it.

Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by Venus sage

Venus sage — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 23:27:37 +0000

Fucking brilliant Scarlet! Thank you for telling it as is! Yes yes more more THANK YOU

Comment on “Phone Etiquette” How to Book a Sensual Massage like a Proper Gentleman by disseminatedthought

disseminatedthought — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 23:09:48 +0000

“Uh, on the internet. Your photo is really hot.”

That’s the most witty and endearing thing he could come up with? Let this be a lesson that living in a relative’s basement and playing Modern Warfare 3 for 9 hours a day is not good for your social interaction skills.

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by Cslim

Cslim — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 09:55:57 +0000

I love this! You are a good writer. I have recently found my love who has made me realize that I have never truly been in love before. He also happens to be the only man who has ever offerd me what I have always wanted, to explore my submissive self. I trust him completely. I have been researching, submission and bondage, and some things that he has mentioned and that we have done. I’m so glad I found this, I was really moved by this passage. Thank you!

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by Moon

Moon — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 17:13:54 +0000

You have truly touched me with this profound and deep transformation with your man. One of my main attractions to this lifestyle although I have not engaged was the healing potential is offers is one is open to the journey! Congrats on your new found power and healing.

You gave me inspiration.

Moon

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by osmosis

osmosis — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 03:21:51 +0000

Wonderfully put. I felt with you through reading it. I appreciated the distinct emotions and relationships being conveyed.

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by Tufluv

Tufluv — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 17:48:20 +0000

I congratulate you. Your experience sounds powerful, sexy, and intriguing. I would like to point out however, that your past experience with your abuser was indeed abuse and did NOT constitute a BDSM relationship. Kink might take on the surface appearance of non-consent, but truly it’s a mutual dance between two consenting grown ups and the conscious ‘yes’ is a key aspect that separates abuse from power exchange. You were truly helpless as a child.

The conscious ‘yes’ allows a submissive to become a conduit/beacon/crucible transforming their Dom’s energy by mixing it with their own and then flowing it back out into the universe. This creates a process of alchemy whereas simple sad abuse is visited upon a victim and becomes soul killing in the end.

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by Eve Minax

Eve Minax — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 17:28:20 +0000

beautifully conveyed…brava!

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by katworldmusic

katworldmusic — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 02:38:23 +0000

Wow, powerful, erotic and yummy at the same time!…can’t WAIT for your novel!

Comment on BDSM, Sexual Healing and The Case of “I Fell In Love Once He Cuffed Me” by Ryan

Ryan — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 02:37:01 +0000

This can’t be true! This is amazing! Wow!

I’m in love. Thank you for sharing this–and sharing it so well!